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Some people protect themselves by trying to control. They are trying to create a comfortable world for themselves. In the process they may cause a great deal of discomfort for. When people are anxious and fearful they may tend to avoid situations that cause anxiety.

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When someone is frustrated with a situation they may react in a manner to release tension.

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Different from a superiority complex that stems from low self-esteem, some people truly believe they are superior to. Sometimes this is due to being taught from a young age that being born into privilege or money or with certain qualities makes them better than other people.

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